Keep it simple this holiday season. We are in year two of this pandemic and it is so wearying. Some of our visits to family or friends might have to be postponed. When I feel stressed about this, I remember that all four of my grandparents lived through the WWI, WWII and the Spanish Flu pandemic! I bet they had many years when they wondered if life would ever get back to normal and what would that look like? My father in law spent at least four Christmas’s in a POW camp in East Germany, working in a salt mine.
Our trip to our favorite town of Tomball snapped us back to reality. Christmas doesn’t have to be perfect to be good. We will be alone this year and it will be fun. Pajamas and Netflix are on the menu. A friend gifted me some fresh chestnuts last week. I haven’t seen any for a decade. After boiling them, Teddy and I stood laboriously taking the double skins off. The internet advice about how to make this task easier was POPPYCOCK!! I cut myself, broke my nail down to the quick and ate half of what I was peeling. They tasted amazing.
Teddy hates nutcrackers in the same way that others hate clowns. It was very kind of him to sit in front of them – nervous but tentatively smiling. It is an historic Texas German town so there has to be nutcrackers, eh? I was amazed by the ingenuity of the various store owners. The white painted bike below is my favorite. The simple town tree in the last photograph is accompanied by a decorative oil derrick because most of Texas is sitting on oil or gas. Very little is drilled in our area anymore but we still have capped oil wells in our peaceful forest.
We passed a church food pantry with a line of cars as we walked through the town center and that gave me pause to be grateful. I am making a simple vegetable stir fry with the aforementioned dratted chestnuts on the 25th. As long as it is made with love, it will taste amazing.
On a final funny note, I ‘allowed’ Teddy to come to the supermarket with me yesterday. He skipped to the car for this special treat. He can go alone to the store but MUST NOT call me on the cell phone like the other dimwit husbands. Teddy has two degrees – figure it out! I parked the car and as we were walking to the door I noticed he was futtering with the buttons of his fleece. Not once but twice had he buttoned them in the wrong order. I rolled my eyes and gave him the withering stare that says, ‘Euthanasia is not off the table’. (Is it Euthanasia if Teddy isn’t willing??) Then I burst out laughing and couldn’t stop. Remember to enjoy the little things.
MERRY CHRISTMAS, HAPPY HOLIDAYS, FELIZ NAVIDAD
Merry Christmas and a blessed new year cousin. I loved your Christmas message and will write back soon.
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Thank you so much! Look forward to it. K x
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Our fridge is so stuffed with food that it is like Jenga getting things in and out.
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LOL! Ours is pretty stuffed too. Merry Christmas!
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Grateful for the little things. The nuts will be scrumptious in a stir fry and you visit interesting place.
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Where did my reply disappear to??? Nasty little Christmas Elves! The nuts were scrumptious and I hope your holiday was happy. Happy New Year when it comes, my friend!
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It was. Those Christmas elves are still on an extended sauce festival
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Me too…🥂
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Haha, that sounds a happy end to the end – always good to close with a laugh and a smile! 🙂
On a more sombre note, yes, you are so right, we really have had it amazingly easy up until now, compared to earlier generations! Sorry to hear about your F-i-L but thankful he made it home eventually!
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FIL did make it back and live to the grand age of 93. He kept making visits back to the place where he was captured and detained. He was an amazing man with no room for revenge in his heart.
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We need more like him!!
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I haven’t had chestnuts in ages. I like them roasted. Not sure if I’ve had them boiled. Have a happy new year!
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Thanks, Neil. I have always roasted them but didn’t want exploding chestnuts in my clean oven. That’s why I boiled them…. Usually I buy them vacuum sealed from France so they have been boiled. Still yummy!
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Wow, it reminds me of a place that time (thankfully) had forgotten.
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There are still some old style towns in Texas! 🤠
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And don’t miss the penguin parade!
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Oh – that is so cute, GP! Thank you. 🐧🐧🐧 Merry Christmas.
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Have a wonderful Christmas and here’s hoping for a restorative 2022. I know what you mean about peeling chestnuts.
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Wishing you a great Christmas down under, Peggy! I had forgotten how hard they were to peel…
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I swear I’ll never forget. Ha!
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Simple is not always a bad thing! And like you, throughout this pandemic I find myself thinking of the challenges my grandparents must have had to overcome. Wishing you a joyous Christmas.
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Thank you so much, Brian. Perspective is something that is in short supply right now. Merry Christmas to you and yours. 🎄🎄
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What a lovely post, Kerry 🙂 Christmas is almost here and planning is in full swing now. Have you ever stopped to think about how much time and planning we put into one day? Yes, it’s one lovely day, but still, kinda crazy when you think about it! This year, I am intentionally choosing a slow and simple Christmas that’s full of love, connection, and simple traditions. Our holidays might be imperfect by social media standards, yet oh so beautiful as I usually ignore the pressure to keep up. Best wishes for a joyous Christmas filled with love, happiness and prosperity 🙂 Aiva
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We used to call my Mum the Christmas Dictator with her insistence on the perfect table, gifts, tree and bloody Xmas pudding!! She couldn’t help herself – it was an odd part of her complex mental illness. Teddy was very good at distracting her and making her laugh. As much as I miss her, even after 20 years, I really prefer our much simpler festive occasions. Our American neighbors are very good at making handmade cookies or cakes which are the perfect gift.
Priecīgus Ziemassvētkus!! K x
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Merry, Merry. Keep smiling. Jesus is Coming! 🌟✨💫
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I hope you have a blessed Christmas, Gail. Your family will eat very well! K x
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You know me well. 🤣 Blessings to you and yours. 🌲🌟🍒
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Such good advice, Kerry: Enjoy the little pleasures; stop to smell the flowers, to listen to the birds, to hug a tree. And your husband, even if he doesn’t know how to button his fleece. 😊
Wishing you good cheer, health, and happiness,
Tanja
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Thank you, Tanja. I often hug my Live Oak although she is pushing up my concrete path again… The gift of chestnuts from my friend was a perfect example of little things.
Have a wonderful time up north and look out for reindeer across the sky!! 🦌🦌🦌🎅
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Thank you.
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Hi Kerry,
Pajamas and Netflix sounds like the perfect day to me.
I loved your final note lol
Wishing you both a blessed Christmas Day! ♥♥
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Poor Teddy is long suffering…😍 I will definitely have to come up north and matchmake for you in the future. My bridesmaid married our best man and are still married over 30 years. Feliz Navidad, Ana!
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Perhaps you can renew your vowels and find me a match 😉
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I love my husband but one set of vows was enough!!! 😍
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Lol. I get it. 😁
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Merry Christmas Kerry. The photos are lovely and I appreciate the perspective that we too can get through this time. It is different but it can still be good. Netflix and PJs sound great to me.
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Yours must have been a busy year with so many people with mental health problems. I wish you a calm and restful Christmas Day. K x
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It’s definitely a strange time in our history. Thank you for the lovely wish. I am taking a bit of time away from the office and am looking forward to that. Lots of care and good wishes in 2022 .♥️♥️
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Merry Christmas to you, too,
Pit
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Frohe Weihnachten für dich, mein Freund!
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May this season be full of light and laughter for you and your family.
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Thank you so much, Kally. I wish you good health for 2022.
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🎄💜
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Happy Christmas to you and Teddy Kerry. You’re right, our generation lives in golden times compared to many in the past, and our troubles are small by comparison. Tomball looks cute but I wonder how it got to be a city? I like the Christmas tree which seems to mock or mimic that oil well (?) in the park.
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Texas legal history is complex. Back in the day, Tomball would have been reasonably remote. Towns become cities when they have their own police and fire services/legal autonomy etc. Tomball has 10,000 residents but our Township has 100,000 residents. We all voted against becoming a city.
I suspect the tree was an homage to the derrick which allowed these poor farming communities to become wealthy until the oil ran out. It’s Saudi Arabia with cowboys…🤠
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Nice photos they are happy
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Thank you, Kally!
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