Zhenny – our crazy cat, RIP.

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I had such a sad day yesterday. Our beautiful Zhenny’s heart stopped during a routine dental procedure and she is now buried in the garden with Mrs. Stripe who died earlier in the year. She was geriatric and had some cognitive difficulties but it was an unexpected death. Teddy and I are distraught despite knowing that she didn’t have much longer. She was so funny, loving and crazy, RIP our special girl. This is my original post about her.

I know – she is utterly beautiful. Her eyes are exquisite and she looks like a cat on a pyramid. That’s the problem… I first encountered her at the cat shelter where my husband and I volunteered in Cairo, Egypt. Her owner was moving from an American military base in Cairo to another in Korea and couldn’t take her fur baby. I can only imagine how her owner felt but Zhenny was distraught. She wouldn’t eat anything, despite our endless treats and pleading. The veterinarian put an IV drip in but she thought she was being tortured. We already had Mrs. Stripe and her daughter, Toffee, our garden cats, so we certainly didn’t want another one. We thought that Stripe would attack her anyway as she is so territorial. Then one day it was obvious that Zhenny was dying and I just put her in a crate, took her home so that she could die somewhere nice.

She was so skinny that we bought her a little cat nest with a hood so that she could feel safe and comfortable in her final days. To my surprise, when I introduced Stripe and Toffee to her, I could see them saying, ‘Poor little soul’ and thus she was accepted. The fight for her life went on for about a week with me forcing baby food into her mouth. In desperation I bought some minced beef and cooked it for her. For the first time, she seemed to have an appetite and started eating properly. By that time we were all bonded or used to each other’s scents and it was too late… That was 12 years ago and she was 18 months old. She is still alive but I have saved her life on another occasion when the veterinarian hospital could not look after her. We believe she may have sent someone to ER…

Stripe and Toffee are likely half Mau but completely feral. Zhenny looks like a tabby oriental but may as well be from Planet Zed. Even the vet said that she is just loco. I have looked after many cats but this one is an enigma. Only I can lift her, and only in special circumstances. Her Dad may only kiss her but not stroke her. He is also the only one who is allowed to play with her in a precise OCD way. Mum is just for cuddles and care-giving. The other two cats were utterly silent for years, as feral cats can be, but Zhenny is astonishingly vocal. I will be on the phone with my aunt in Ireland, Zhenny will be three rooms away and she can hear her screaming. After all these years we can tell the difference between her distress and laughter. The vet suggested that we give her Xanax – I looked at him and said, “How precisely should I do that, with a blow-dart, perhaps?”

She can be hysterically funny or drive us to tears. If she is upset she creeps along the floor, sobbing. Have you ever heard a cat sob? All treats have to be thrown like live prey and yet she is not a hunter. We discovered much later that she had kittens before we took her in but still hadn’t been neutered. Shortly after I saved her life in Cairo, she went into heat. Our villa was three houses from the baker’s shop at the end of the street and I could hear her howling inside our house. No wonder our neighbors had some issues with us… One time she was halfway up the stairs, with her head peeping through the balustrade and started ‘in heat howling’. Even she looked astonished at the guttural sound that came out of her mouth and we burst out laughing.

She should not have lived this long but Mummy is just so good at saving her life. Sigh. Our vet looks at me in horror when I say very firmly DO NOT RESUSCITATE! She is so difficult to handle that we know that she would not be able to cope with a chronic illness or disability so it would be a kindness. She has the early stages of kidney dysfunction but I suspect she has at least another year in her. Oh we will miss these beautiful green blue eyes and her funny vocalizations.

Zhenny at 2 years old in Cairo
Zhenny at 2 years old in Cairo

71 thoughts on “Zhenny – our crazy cat, RIP.

  1. So sorry about Zhenny Kerry :(. She’s beautiful. You gave her a longer happy life, that is so wonderful.

    I have two cats, tabby and tabby/white both semi-feral. They are now 3 years old and I love them to bits. My tabby Joseph looks very similar to Zhenny, different markings though. Your Zhenny looks more wild cat! Those lovely green eyes :). Take care x

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      1. You gave her those extra years and she loved you for that. I feel teary as I love my two cats and know how I’d feel. They are brothers but two different personalities. Joseph you can pick up and cuddle and Elliot doesn’t like it all … Take care x

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  2. That is awful! Another friend lost her beloved dog (due to anesthesia) during a routine medical procedure, so now, hearing of Zhenny’s loss, I feel very suspicious of these routine procedures.

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    1. In our case, we knew she was at high risk with some chronic health problems but she was in pain with bad teeth. We even signed a DNR – we are comforted that she was probably going to die soon and was in no pain.

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      1. Well, if you’re comfortable then it isn’t as bad. My friend, Cherie, lost Ms. MaLassie recently – she was over 100 in doggy years, and Cherie has anticipated this for a long, long time…. but it was still a wrenching loss.

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      2. It is a wrenching loss, Jeanne and my eyes are still swollen. I worked in an animal shelter (where I rescued Zhenny) and it made me a little more pragmatic about the circle of life.

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      3. I grew up on a dairy farm, so understand the circle of life, too.
        That does NOT mean that the loss of each and every pet makes me feel like my heart is being torn out.
        Our current focus is on Matthew, which will arrive tomorrow or Thursday – the question will be if it is a tropical storm or a hurricane. IF it’s the latter, our Plan B is to evacuate & visit a friend.

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  3. Oh you poor darlings. There is nothing I can say, nor do to make the pain of losing crazy Zhenny so unexpectedly any better. So I will have to make do with sending you both my warmest thoughts and hope that you may find comfort over time in the wonderful life you gave your little no-hoper with the exquisite eyes. Rest in Peace Zhenny and go peacefully her humans 🌹xx

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